So many times, the fabulous ideas I have the pleasure of writing about are not my own. Such is the case with this. Thank you for sharing this precious, sweet story with me…You both know who you are! I feel it’s a story we can all learn from and can be encouraged by.
On Monday, I shared with you my unabashed love for a cast iron skillet. Many would look at a cast iron skillet and scratch their heads wondering, “what’s so special about this?” That someone was a precious friend of mine, we’ll call her Dee, when she wed the love of her life many years ago.
Dee was just thrilled to be attending her first wedding shower given by her soon-to-be mother-in-law and her friends. I am sure that she had just the right outfit picked out, had painted her finger nails just so, and made sure she crossed her ankles rather than her legs as she sat in front of the all women opening gifts “oohing” and “ahhhing” at all the right moments. One such gift was a cast iron skillet, given by one of her mother-in-law’s friends, someone she barely knew at the time. It was already seasoned and wrapped up in a simple box.
Dee recalls feeling somewhat disappointed in the gift when she first uncovered it. As many of you know, a seasoned cast iron skillet takes on a dirty or well-used look, not pretty, black, and shiny like you see on the store shelves. Little did she realize the love and care that woman put into seasoning, baking, wiping, repeat, seasoning, baking, wiping, repeat. But, she accepted it graciously and took it to the home she would share with her new husband in just a few short weeks.
Now, some 25+ years later, Dee says that she uses that cast iron skillet just about every night, and has used it since the very beginning. The flavor that is imparted is unmatched by any other cookware she has in her cupboards. How precious that simple gift ended up being for Dee!
Dee has since then shared this story with other women around here likening that dirty cast iron skillet to how the Savior “seasons” us, His children. He gives us a little seasoning, puts us in the fire, tests us, takes us back out, cares for us, and loves us. But, you know what? Sometimes we have to go back in the fire from time to time don’t we?
The Bible says in I Peter 4:12-13, “Dear friends, do not be surprised at the fiery ordeal that has come on you to test you, as though something strange were happening to you. 13 But rejoice inasmuch as you participate in the sufferings of Christ, so that you may be overjoyed when his glory is revealed.”
Whoa! I don’t know about you, but when I walked the aisle at Church Easter Sunday at the age of 9 and shook the Pastor’s hand, I don’t think I realized that is what I signed up for.
Suffering? Rejoicing? Do those 2 words even belong in the same sentence?
Again in Romans 12:12 we are told to “Rejoice in hope, be patient in tribulation, and be constant in prayer.”
One of my favorite verses, and perhaps my life verse, is II Corinthians 12:9, “But the Lord said to me, My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in your weakness.”
Oh, how glad I am that HE is revealed in my weakness. That He shows Himself in the midst of my suffering. That He is good and faithful and will never leave me in my tribulations. He never promised that the “seasoning” of life would be easy, but He did promise He would be there to walk the road with us. That He would come along side us. That He would send people to us that could help us, encourage us, love us. That He would complete the work He began in us until the day He returns.
That fire burns. It’s hot. It’s painful. It’s unpleasant. But, the wonderful beauty that is revealed when fully seasoned in Him is something that bears much fruit and a strong witness. May we never grow weary sharing Him!